What God has Joined Together, Let No Man Put Asunder

At times I wonder if I am in shock. Going through a divorce has got to be one of the most stressful, painful events we can ever go through. This is something I NEVER thought would happen to me. I know no one gets married thinking they will divorce. Because of our faith and the kind of relationship we had from the beginning, and what I was told when we were going through difficult times, I thought we were both in this till death. I took my vows very seriously and this has literally been a life shifting experience.

What surprised me, is my situation seems so awful, I could not believe anyone else could do the things that have been done to me. To my utter surprise, when I posted what was going on with me on a divorce board, I received many resounding replies that they were in the exact same situation as myself.  Their spouse, had an affair, walked out to begin a new life, leaving them to clean up the mess. How do people do that? I've been told to quit asking why, but I am the kind of person who wants to know why. It helps me process and this is something I just cannot process.

Time heals all wounds. I hope so.